Simple Prayer

Soon after my husband Ron suddenly lost his eyesight we went to the Braille Institute, which offers many helpful services for blind people. I was trying to lead him by the hand into the building.

He was frightened by the changing shadows and the rough and smooth textured sidewalks, certain I was leading him into an obstacle he would trip over.

I kept saying, “Trust me. Just trust me.”

But he was terrified as we walked from the sunlight into the shadows, and from darkness back into the light again. I kept reassuring him, “The sidewalk is clear.”

He still didn’t believe me, and I couldn’t understand why he didn’t trust me to safely guide him.

As we inched our way into one of the rooms, both of us feeling forlorn and frightened, Pablo, one of the employees, said, “Let me show you how to guide him.”

Pablo told us about his grandmother who had been blind as he showed me that Ron needed to hold onto my arm instead of trying to pull him along by the hand as I was doing.

Finding Time to Pray

A few years ago, I met with Lisa and Peggy who expressed similar frustrations. We discussed the barriers and fears that we have about prayer. Why don’t we pray more? One shared how a woman in their church had started an intercessory prayer group and no one came. Why? we questioned.

Peggy, a mother of five and caretaker for her own mother,  said, “Sometimes I think God doesn’t see what I have to do in a day. If He only knew, He’d understand why I don’t have time to pray. Of course, I know He knows,” she said, suggesting “Perhaps, we could try praying for two minutes at a time throughout the day.”

We also realized that we become caught in the trap that we don’t have enough time to  pray now, but we’ll spend those hours in prayer when we get older and have more time. But will we have more time? As I pointed out, I’m in my sixties (71 now) and working harder and have as heavy of obligations as I did when I was younger. So the three of us agreed that waiting for the days when we had more time to pray might never come.

We agreed that we needed simple, practical ways we could pray. We needed a balance between developing a more disciplined prayer-life and not becoming too legalistic and rigid.

Prayer needed to be attainable and doable. We needed concrete ideas and clear direction on how and what to pray specifically for others. We needed to have a beginning place to build our prayer-life on, and not start off by trying to be an on your knees at 4 a.m. prayer-warrior.

A good beginning place would be to pick a routine task and commit to joining it with a time of prayer until the task was done. When we have our morning coffee, it could become a time of prayer rather than reading a newspaper. We don’t have to keep thinking that we have to squeeze an extra minute to pray. We can do tasks that don’t require our attention and pray at the same time.

We could build a habit of coming into the Lord’s presence for a few moments at a time as we were doing our regular tasks. While we’re driving, doing dishes, laundry, vacuuming, or any other routine task that doesn’t require much thinking but would provide an opportunity to pray.

Though we didn’t realize it at the time, we were talking about Simple Prayer, “the most basic, the most primary form of prayer.” It is called the” Prayer of Beginning Again.” (Foster, 9.)

Simple Prayer

Simple prayer is just that basic requests, short and to the point, talking to the Lord about our daily concerns. It’s everyday talk not flowery words or theological language that sounds super spiritual. Just being yourself and talking the way you do in daily conversation.

Richard Foster wrote, “There is no pretense in Simple Prayer. We do not pretend to be more holy, more pure, or more saintly than we actually are. We do not try to conceal our conflicting and contradictory motives from God—or ourselves.” (Foster, Prayer, 10.) Simple prayer is being as real and truthful and transparent with the Lord as we can be.

We don’t have to be afraid that the Lord will criticize or tune us out. We can talk to the Lord without thinking ahead of time about what we need to say in order to persuade Him to hear and answer us.

Rosalind Rinker said, “The more natural the prayer, the more real He becomes. It has all been simplified for me to this extent: prayer is a dialogue between two persons who love each other.” (Rinker, Prayer: Conversing with God, 23.)

Simple prayer is conversational prayer. It is like curling up on a soft sofa for a leisurely chat. It’s talking heart to heart with our beloved Friend who knows us better than anyone else.

We can relax in His presence and be ourselves without apology or explanation. It’s a mutual friendship for the Lord desires we know Him with the intimacy that He knows us.

We are safe and secure and can have complete trust in our soul Friend, the One with whom we can tell our greatest concerns and will keep our deepest confidences. We can even sit quietly together without trying to fill silences.

Some Christians may feel that simple prayer is too self-centered, always asking, begging, and pleading is not pleasing to God. Our prayers need to be more centered on others.

Foster said, “What these people fail to see, however, is that Simple Prayer is necessary, even essential, to the spiritual life. The only way we move beyond ‘self-centered prayer’ (if indeed we ever do) is by going through it, not by making a detour around it.” (Foster, Prayer, 10-11.)

The Lord cares about our personal concerns. The Bible is filled with cries for help. “Come quickly to help me, O Lord my Savior” (Ps. 38:22). “Listen to my cry, for I am in desperate need . . . ” (Ps. 142:6a).

Simple prayer is a beggar’s plea. When blind Bartimaeus was sitting by the roadside begging and heard that Jesus was coming, he began to shout, “Jesus, Son of David, have mercy on me!”  The crowd rebuked Bartimaeus, but he shouted the same prayer all the louder until Jesus stopped and called to him (Mark 10:46-50).

“‘What do you want me to do for you?’ Jesus asked him. The blind man said, ‘Rabbi, I want to see.’ ‘Go,’ said Jesus, ‘your faith has healed you’” (Mark 10:51-52b).

What a simple exchange between Bartimaeus and Jesus. We have this misconception that the longer and more eloquent the prayer the more power we have to persuade God.

In Hallesby’s book, Prayer, he wrote, “Prayer is something deeper than words. It is present in the soul before it has been formulated in words. And it abides in the soul after the last words of prayer have passed over our lips.”  (O Hallesby, Prayer, 16.)

Simple prayer is so much deeper than talking to the Lord, which we think it must be. “Prayer is a definite attitude of our hearts toward God, an attitude which He in heaven immediately recognizes as prayer, as an appeal to His heart. Whether it takes the form of words or not, does not mean anything to God, only to ourselves.  (O Hallesby, Prayer, 16.)

Simple prayer can be one word, such as, “Jesus.”  It can be a passing thought about a need or talking to another person about our concerns that was not prayer at all. For the Lord hears and knows everything on our hearts. “You know my every thought when far away.”  “You know what I am going to say even before I say it, Lord”  (Ps. 139:2b; 4 nlt).  As Jesus said, “Your Father knows what you need before you ask him” (Matt. 6:8b).

 Simple prayer is a moan or cry of the heart without words. For He sees our tears and hears our weeping. In Genesis we see such an example in the story of Hagar and her son who were lost in the desert. She was so desperate she went off a short ways from her son because she could not bear to watch him die.

God sent an angel who told Hagar, “‘Do not be afraid; God has heard the boy crying as he lies there’”  (Gen. 21:17). Then the angel led Hagar and her son to a well of water and provided for their needs (Gen. 21:16-20).

Simple prayer can even be a conversation with other people that the Lord overhears. The Israelites complained to Moses and Aaron because they didn’t have food. The Lord heard and provided for their needs, but He was angry with the people for grumbling intead of simply asking and trusting Him to provide (Ex.16:1-4).

Then there was the woman who had been subject to bleeding for twelve years. She came up behind Jesus and touched the hem of his cloak because she thought, “If I just touch his clothes, I will be healed” (Mark 5:29).

She immediately stopped bleeding. Jesus felt power going out of Himself and asked who had touched His clothes. She came forward and told Him that she had been healed.

“He said to her, ‘Daughter, your faith has healed you. Go in peace and be freed from your suffering’” (Mark 5:34). Jesus overheard her thoughts and responded even though she wasn’t praying to Him.

Let us be encouraged that Jesus hears our thoughts we don’t realize are prayer. He desires to show us that He is aware of our every need. He longs for us to watch and see how He is working and answering.